Growing up again parenting ourselves, parenting our children
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Center City, Minn. :
Hazelden,
c1998.
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| Edition: | 2nd ed. |
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| 100 | 1 | |a Clarke, Jean Illsley. | |
| 245 | 1 | 0 | |a Growing up again : |b parenting ourselves, parenting our children / |c Jean Illsley Clarke and Connie Dawson. |
| 250 | |a 2nd ed. | ||
| 260 | |a Center City, Minn. : |b Hazelden, |c c1998. | ||
| 300 | |a xiv, 310 p. : |b ill. ; |c 24 cm. | ||
| 504 | |a Includes bibliographical references (p. 299-305) and index. | ||
| 505 | 0 | 0 | |g section 1. |t Getting started -- |t Introduction -- |g ch. 1. |t Learning to parent our children and ourselves -- |g ch. 2. The |t hunger for stimulation, recognition, and certainty -- |g section. 2. |t Nurture : the gentle side of care --- |g ch. 3. |t Nurture - what it is and why we need it -- |t Nurture chart -- |g ch. 4. |t Assertive care and supportive care : alike but different -- |g ch. 5. |t Life examples of the nurture chart -- |g ch. 6. |t When love doesn't stick -- |g ch. 7. |t Nurturing other adults and ourselves -- |g section 3. |t Structure : the firm side of care -- |g ch. 8. |t Structure - what it is and why we need it -- |t Structure chart -- |g ch. 10. |t Negotiable and nonnegotiable rules : using rules as structure tools -- |g ch. 10. The |t lessons of discipline -- |g ch. 11. |t Life examples of the structure chart -- |g ch. 12. The |t Nurture/structure highway -- |g ch. 13. |t When parents disagree about rules -- |g ch. 14. |t Structure, shame, and victim blame -- |g ch. 15. |t Growing up again - a story of change -- |g section 4. |t Overindulgence : misguided nurture, inadequate structure -- |g ch. 16. |t Overindulgence -- |g ch. 17. The |t hazards of overindulgence -- |g ch. 18. |t Why parents overindulge -- |g ch. 19. |t What to do instead of overindulging -- |t Alternatives to overindulging chart -- |g section 5. |t Denial : the glue that keeps us stuck -- |g ch. 20. |t How we deny : the four levels of discounting -- |t Discounting chart -- |g ch. 21. |t Examples of the four levels of discounting -- |t Stop discounting, chart 2 -- |g ch. 22. |t Stop the many ways of discounting -- |t Double-bind discounting, chart 3 -- |g ch. 23. |t Problem solving : putting it all together -- |t Problem-solving worksheet -- |g section 6. The |t prenatal and birth experience -- |g ch. 24. |t Becoming : the prenatal and birth experience -- |g section 7. |t Growing up again and again -- |g ch. 25. |t Ages and stages -- |t Prenatal (becoming : conception to birth -- |t Stage 1 (being) : birth to six months -- |t Stage 2 (doing) : six months to eighteen months -- |t Stage 3 (thinking) : eighteen months to three years -- |t stage 4 (identity and power) : three years to six years -- |t Stage 5 (structure) : six years to twelve years -- |t Stage 6 (identity, sexuality, and separation) : twelve years to nineteen years -- |t Stage 7 (interdependence) : adults -- |t Stage 8 (integration) : towards death -- |g ch. 26. |t General activities for deliberately growing up again -- |g section 8. |t Adoption -- |g ch. 27. |t Adoption -- |t Adoption development chart -- |g appendix A. |t Tools for family growth -- |t Even and uneven parenting -- |t Using contracts -- |t Sample rules chart -- |t Getting free of double binds -- |t Encouraging responsibility through language -- |t Supporting spiritual growth through the early development stages -- |g appendix B. |t Tools for personal growth -- |t Developmental affirmations : how to use them with your family and yourself -- |t Seeing our own shields : a visualization -- |t Where to go for additional help. |
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