The myth of the spoiled child challenging the conventional wisdom about children and parenting

"Somehow, a set of deeply conservative assumptions about children-- what they're like and how they should be raised-- have congealed into the conventional wisdom in our society. Parents are accused of being both permissive and overprotective, unwilling to set limits and afraid to let their...

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Main Author: Kohn, Alfie.
Format: Books Print Book
Language: English
Published: Boston, MA : Da Capo Lifelong, a member of the Perseus Books Group, 2014.
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Table of Contents:
  • Permissive parents, coddled kids, and other reliable bogeymen
  • Parenting in perspective
  • Overstating overparenting
  • Getting hit on the head lessons : motivation, failure, and the outrage over participation trophies
  • The underlying values : conditionality, scarcity, and deprivation
  • The attack on self-esteem
  • Why self-discipline is overrated : a closer look at grit, marshmallows, and control from within
  • Raising rebels.