Should I stay or should I go? a guide to knowing if your relationship can--and should--be saved

""Is this what all couples go through?" "Do I expect too much from a relationship?" "Can my partner really change?" "Are there steps I can take to get my relationship back on course?" "When is it time to move on?" You're getting hurt over and over again, so should you stay or should you go? Every re...

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Main Author: Bancroft, Lundy
Other Authors: Patrissi, JAC
Format: Books Print Book
Language:English
Published: New York : Berkley Trade, 2011.
Edition:Berkley trade pbk. ed.
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Table of Contents:
  • Part I. Focusing on the root issues : Don't all relationships have problems?
  • Is the problem immaturity?
  • Is the problem addiction?
  • Is the problem his mental health?
  • Is the problem abuse or control?
  • Am I the problem?
  • Part II. Motivating for change: his and yours : What makes a man (finally) look at himself
  • Getting yourself back to center?
  • His first steps
  • Setting "no-matter-what-happens" goals for yourself
  • Part III. Entering the new phase : Men's work: what it's really all about
  • Why your growth may bring more answers than his
  • Are we really getting anywhere?
  • The pros and cons of giving him time
  • Part IV. Making the big decision : Why you may feel worse when he improves
  • Rules for saving the savable relationship
  • How to know when it's time to go
  • Part V. Life beyond : Entering freedom after a destructive relationship
  • Choosing a new partner
  • Creating the relationship you want
  • Growing a new heart.