An abbreviated life a memoir

"Sometimes, a child is born to a parent who can't be a parent, and, like a seedling in the shade, has to grow toward a distant sun. Ariel Leve's spare and powerful memoir will remind us that family isn't everything -- kindness and nurturing are." -- Gloria Steinem. Ariel Leve grew up in Manhattan wi...

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Main Author: Leve, Ariel, 1968-
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Language:English
Published: 2016.
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