I miss you when I blink essays

"Mary Laura Philpott thought she'd cracked the code: Always be right, and you'll always be happy. But once she'd completed her life's to-do list (job, spouse, house, babies--check!), she found that instead of feeling content and successful, she felt anxious. Lost. Stuck in a...

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Main Author: Philpott, Mary Laura (Author)
Format: Books Print Book
Language: English
Published: New York : Atria, 2019.
Edition: First Atria Books hardcover edition.
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Summary: "Mary Laura Philpott thought she'd cracked the code: Always be right, and you'll always be happy. But once she'd completed her life's to-do list (job, spouse, house, babies--check!), she found that instead of feeling content and successful, she felt anxious. Lost. Stuck in a daily grind of overflowing calendars, grueling small talk, and sprawling traffic. She'd done everything "right," but she felt all wrong. What's the worse failure, she wondered: smiling and staying the course, or blowing it all up and running away? And are those the only options? In this memoir-in-essays full of spot-on observations about home, work, and creative life, Philpott takes on the conflicting pressures of modern adulthood with wit and heart. She offers up her own stories to show that identity crises don't happen just once or only at midlife; reassures us that small, recurring personal re-inventions are both normal and necessary; and advises that if you're going to faint, you should get low to the ground first. Most of all, Philpott shows that when you stop feeling satisfied with your life, you don't have to burn it all down and set off on a transcontinental hike (unless you want to, of course). You can call upon your many selves to figure out who you are, who you're not, and where you belong. Who among us isn't trying to do that? Like a pep talk from a sister, I Miss You When I Blink is the funny, poignant, and deeply affecting book you'll want to share with all your friends, as you learn what Philpott has figured out along the way: that multiple things can be true of us at once--and that sometimes doing things wrong is the way to do life right"--
Philpott found that once she'd completed her life's to-do list-- job, spouse, house, babies-- instead of feeling content and successful, she felt anxious. What's the worse failure, she wondered: smiling and staying the course, or blowing it all up and running away? And are those the only options? Here she takes on the conflicting pressures of modern adulthood with wit and heart. Recurring personal re-inventions are both normal and necessary, and Philpott shows that sometimes doing things wrong is the way to do life right. -- adapted from jacket
Physical Description: xii, 276 pages ; 22 cm
ISBN: 9781982102807
1982102802
9781982102814
1982102810
Author Notes: Mary Laura Philpott, nationally bestselling author of I Miss You When I Blink and Bomb Shelter , writes essays and memoirs that examine the overlap of the absurd and the profound in everyday life. Her writing has been featured by The New York Times , The Washington Post , and The Atlantic , among many other publications . A former bookseller, she also hosted an interview program on Nashville Public Television for several years. Mary Laura lives in Nashville, Tennessee, with her family.