How to say goodbye the wisdom of hospice caregivers

"As artist-in-residence at the Zen Hospice Project Guest House, Wendy MacNaughton experienced firsthand how difficult it is to know what to do when we're sharing final moments with a loved one. In this tenderly illustrated guide to saying goodbye, with a foreword by renowned physician and...

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Main Author: MacNaughton, Wendy (Author)
Other Authors: Miller, BJ (writer of foreword.)
Format: Books Print Book
Language: English
Published: New York : Bloomsbury Publishing, 2023.
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Summary: "As artist-in-residence at the Zen Hospice Project Guest House, Wendy MacNaughton experienced firsthand how difficult it is to know what to do when we're sharing final moments with a loved one. In this tenderly illustrated guide to saying goodbye, with a foreword by renowned physician and author BJ Miller, MacNaughton shows how to make sure those moments are meaningful. Using a framework of "the five things" taught to her by a professional caregiver, How to Say Goodbye provides a model for having conversations of love, respect, and closure: with the words "I forgive you," "Please forgive me," "Thank you," "I love you," and "Goodbye," each oriented toward finding mutual peace and understanding when it matters most. How to Say Goodbye features MacNaughton's drawn-from-life artwork from both the Zen Hospice Project Guest House and her own aunt's bedside as she died, each paired with hospice caregivers' gentle advice on creating a positive sensory experience, acknowledging what you can't control, and sharing memories and gratitude. A poignant guide to embracing the present and deepening relationships during great vulnerability, How to Say Goodbye shows that just as there is no one right way to live a good life, there is no one right way to say goodbye. Whether confused, scared, or uncertain, this book is a starting point"--
Item Description: "First published in the United States 2023."--Title page verso.
Physical Description: xiii, 105 pages : illustrations (chiefly color) ; 19 cm
Bibliography: Includes bibliographical references (pages 96-104).
ISBN: 9781639730858
1639730850
Author Notes: Wendy MacNaughton is a New York Times -bestselling artist, illustrator, and graphic journalist with a degree in social work who combines these practices to tell the stories of people who are often overlooked. She has illustrated and/or authored eleven books, including Salt Fat Acid Heat , The Gutsy Girl , and Meanwhile in San Francisco: The City in Its Own Words . Her visual storytelling series Meanwhile was the New York Times 's first weekly drawn journalism column. The creator of DrawTogether and co-founder of Women Who Draw, she lives in the Bay Area with her wife, the author Caroline Paul. Instagram/Twitter/YouTube @wendymac / wendymacnaughton.com