The art of fighting the transformative power of conflict

"Parker draws on her far-reaching experience as a conflict facilitator, her own detailed research, and real-world examples to lay out the ways that people can identify disputes, determine how to address them, and what to do if they are insurmountable"-- Provided by publisher.

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Main Author: Parker, Priya (Author)
Format: Books Print Book
Language:English
Published: New York : Riverhead Books, 2026.
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Table of Contents:
  • Part I: Tear. Why is this happening?
  • An ode to obvious questions
  • Assessing what kind of fight you're in
  • How to keep a kerfuffle a kerfuffle
  • Just dive in? Not so fast
  • The surprising power of banter.
  • Part II: Grapple. The craft of excavation
  • Don't throw the baby of insight out with the bathwater of gossip
  • What is the actual need?
  • Conflict rituals: what we can learn from the vikings, palavers, and real housewives reunions
  • The fight plan
  • Preparing your body for a fight
  • The r(z)oom where it happens
  • Taking the proxy out of a proxy war.
  • Part III: Cleave. The aftermath: emotional hangovers, meaning-making, and a vacuum
  • Should I stay or should I go?
  • Three gut checks
  • Cleaving: parting and breaking (up)
  • When the old guard refuses to budge
  • Cleaving: binding and changing
  • Epilogue: The art of fighting comes home.