Hold on to your kids why parents need to matter more than peers

" . . . Children today increasingly look to their peers for direction -- their values, identity, and codes of behavior. This 'peer orientation' undermines family cohesion, interferes with healthy development, and fosters a hostile na sexualized youth culture . . . . Hold On to Your Kids explains the...

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Main Author: Neufeld, Gordon
Other Authors: Maté, Gabor
Format: Books Print Book
Language:English
Published: New York : Ballantine Books, 2006.
Edition:Ballantine Books trade paperback ed.
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300 |a xvi, 296 p. ;  |c 21 cm. 
504 |a Includes bibliographical references (p. [275]-280) and index. 
505 0 |a pt. 1. The phenomenon of peer orientation -- 1. Why parents matter more than ever -- 2. Skewed attachments, subverted instincts -- 3. Why we've come undone -- pt. 2. Sabotaged : how peer orientation undermines parenting -- 4. The power to parent is slipping away -- 5. From help to hindrance : when attachment works against us -- 6. Counterwill : why children become disobedient -- 7. The flatlining of culture -- pt. 3. Stuck in immaturity : how peer orientation stunts healthy development -- 8. The dangerous flight from feeling -- 9. Stuck in immaturity -- 10. A legacy of aggression -- 11. The making of bullies and victims -- 12. A sexual turn -- 13. Unteachable students -- pt. 4. How to hold on to our kids (or how to reclaim them) -- 14. Collecting our children -- 15. Preserve the ties that empower -- 16. Discipline that does not divide -- pt. 5. Preventing peer orientation -- 17. Don't court the competition -- 18. Re-create the attachment village -- Glossary. 
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