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Hold on to your kids why parents need to matter more than peers
" . . . Children today increasingly look to their peers for direction -- their values, identity, and codes of behavior. This 'peer orientation' undermines family cohesion, interferes with healthy development, and fosters a hostile na sexualized youth culture . . . . Hold On to Your Ki...
| Main Author: | Neufeld, Gordon. |
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| Other Authors: | MateĢ, Gabor. |
| Format: | Books Print Book |
| Language: | English |
| Published: |
New York :
Ballantine Books,
2006.
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| Edition: | Ballantine Books trade paperback ed. |
| Subjects: |
Table of Contents:
- pt. 1. The phenomenon of peer orientation
- 1. Why parents matter more than ever
- 2. Skewed attachments, subverted instincts
- 3. Why we've come undone
- pt. 2. Sabotaged : how peer orientation undermines parenting
- 4. The power to parent is slipping away
- 5. From help to hindrance : when attachment works against us
- 6. Counterwill : why children become disobedient
- 7. The flatlining of culture
- pt. 3. Stuck in immaturity : how peer orientation stunts healthy development
- 8. The dangerous flight from feeling
- 9. Stuck in immaturity
- 10. A legacy of aggression
- 11. The making of bullies and victims
- 12. A sexual turn
- 13. Unteachable students
- pt. 4. How to hold on to our kids (or how to reclaim them)
- 14. Collecting our children
- 15. Preserve the ties that empower
- 16. Discipline that does not divide
- pt. 5. Preventing peer orientation
- 17. Don't court the competition
- 18. Re-create the attachment village
- Glossary.