How to feel loved the five mindsets that get you more of what matters most
How to Feel Loved by Sonja Lyubomirsky and Harry Reis examines the distinction between being loved and feeling loved. Drawing on research in psychology and relationship science, the authors argue that emotional fulfillment depends less on performing lovable behaviors and more on mutual vulnerability...
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New York, NY :
Harper,
[2026]
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| Edition: | First edition. |
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| 245 | 1 | 0 | |a How to feel loved : |b the five mindsets that get you more of what matters most / |c Sonja Lyubomirsky and Harry Reis. |
| 246 | 3 | 0 | |a Five mindsets that get you more of what matters most |
| 246 | 3 | 0 | |a 5 mindsets that get you more of what matters most |
| 250 | |a First edition. | ||
| 264 | 1 | |a New York, NY : |b Harper, |c [2026] | |
| 264 | 4 | |c Ã2026 | |
| 300 | |a x, 402 pages ; |c 24 cm | ||
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| 504 | |a Includes bibliographical references and index. | ||
| 505 | 0 | |a Part I. Why feeling loved matters. Hardwired to feel loved -- The cost of not feeling loved -- Revisiting popular beliefs about what makes you feel loved -- Part II. A new paradigm. The relationship Sea-Saw -- Part III. Putting the Sea-Saw into practice-the five mindsets. Sharing mindset -- Listening-to-Learn mindset -- Radical-Curiosity mindset -- Open-Heart mindset -- Multiplicity mindset -- Part IV. Applying the five mindsets to modern life. Feeling loved in different kinds of relationships -- What if one size doesn't ft all? Diagnosing the personal qualitites that make feeling loved easier or harder -- Can you feel loved by an AI chatbot? How about a throuple? And other questions for the new age -- Conclusion: Why all five mindsets are essential... and why you have to go first. | |
| 520 | |a How to Feel Loved by Sonja Lyubomirsky and Harry Reis examines the distinction between being loved and feeling loved. Drawing on research in psychology and relationship science, the authors argue that emotional fulfillment depends less on performing lovable behaviors and more on mutual vulnerability, responsiveness, and authentic connection. They introduce five relational mindsets--Sharing, Listening-to-Learn, Radical Curiosity, Open-Heart, and Multiplicity--and describe a dynamic interpersonal process they call the "Relationship Sea-Saw." The book applies these principles to romantic, familial, and friendship contexts, offering a research-based framework for fostering deeper emotional connection and well-being. | ||
| 520 | |a "A renowned happiness scientist and a top relationship researcher draw on the science of happiness, love, and human connection to help readers appreciate and nurture what makes them feel truly loved" -- |c Provided by publisher. | ||
| 650 | 0 | |a Happiness. | |
| 650 | 0 | |a Love. | |
| 650 | 0 | |a Interpersonal relations. | |
| 650 | 0 | |a Social interaction |x Psychological aspects. | |
| 655 | 7 | |a Self-help publications. |2 lcgft | |
| 700 | 1 | |a Reis, Harry T., |e author. | |
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