How to feel loved the five mindsets that get you more of what matters most
How to Feel Loved by Sonja Lyubomirsky and Harry Reis examines the distinction between being loved and feeling loved. Drawing on research in psychology and relationship science, the authors argue that emotional fulfillment depends less on performing lovable behaviors and more on mutual vulnerability...
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New York, NY :
Harper,
[2026]
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| Edition: | First edition. |
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Table of Contents:
- Part I. Why feeling loved matters. Hardwired to feel loved
- The cost of not feeling loved
- Revisiting popular beliefs about what makes you feel loved
- Part II. A new paradigm. The relationship Sea-Saw
- Part III. Putting the Sea-Saw into practice-the five mindsets. Sharing mindset
- Listening-to-Learn mindset
- Radical-Curiosity mindset
- Open-Heart mindset
- Multiplicity mindset
- Part IV. Applying the five mindsets to modern life. Feeling loved in different kinds of relationships
- What if one size doesn't ft all? Diagnosing the personal qualitites that make feeling loved easier or harder
- Can you feel loved by an AI chatbot? How about a throuple? And other questions for the new age
- Conclusion: Why all five mindsets are essential... and why you have to go first.
