Your own terms a woman's guide to taking charge of any negotiation

" Who says you need to negotiate like a man? When it comes to negotiation, there is an ugly double standard. As women, if we make concessions to further a deal, we're viewed as weak. But if we play hardball, we can be seen as overly aggressive -- and the strategy backfires. No wonder most...

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Main Author: Davidds, Yasmin.
Other Authors: Bidou, Ann.
Format: Books Print Book
Language: English
Published: New York : American Management Association, [2015]
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Summary: " Who says you need to negotiate like a man? When it comes to negotiation, there is an ugly double standard. As women, if we make concessions to further a deal, we're viewed as weak. But if we play hardball, we can be seen as overly aggressive -- and the strategy backfires. No wonder most women hate negotiating. In Your Own Terms, negotiation expert Yasmin Davidds helps women strike a balance, merging our natural strengths (collaboration, relationship building, listening) with a firm grasp of established tactics. Guidelines, stories, and exercises illuminate the psychology of negotiation and reveal how women can: Control how they are perceived; Eliminate self-sabotaging beliefs and behaviors; Discover their personal negotiation style; Envision the ideal outcome and map backwards; Build leverage; Understand an opponent's approach and adjust theirs in response; Deploy persuasion and redirection tactics; And much more. Set the bar high and negotiate to get there. With this empowering book, women learn the skills to win on their own terms -- and open doors they never knew were shut.
Physical Description: xii, 260 pages : illustrations ; 23 cm
Bibliography: Includes bibliographical references (pages 247-264) and index.
ISBN: 9780814436028 (pbk.)
0814436021 (pbk.)
Author Notes: Yasmin Davidds, PsyD, is founder and CEO of the Women's Institute of Negotiation (WIN) and the Latina Global Executive Leadership Program. She has trained thousands of corporate leaders across the globe. She lives in Los Angeles.
Ann Bidou is a writer and coauthor of Career Match and Personality Power. She lives in Falls Village, Connecticut.